Because we are often too set on finding the person we want to spend the rest of our lives with that we settle or get into relationships too hastily and/or for the wrong reasons.
We are so badly longing to be in love and the movies, blogs, music and novels do not help one bit by pushing unrealistic ideals about it.
You don’t have to listen to music, read books, blogs or watch movies to find the the love of your life.
The only thing you need to do before starting a new relationship to know if it is right or not is to ask the 5 questions in the article below.
If you answer these questions as honestly as you can you will know if you are really ready for a new relationship or not; and if you are ready, the answers will help you find the right person.
1. Do you really love yourself?
That doesn’t mean as an empty gesture. Put time aside and spend a day or two listening to what you say to yourself. Are you hard on yourself? If you can’t be kind to you and show love for yourself, why should anyone else?
2. Do you have things that you are passionate about?
Aside from finding Mr or Mrs right, are there things in life that really drive you?
Have you ever been late for work or missed the trip to the gym in the morning because you wanted to cuddle for longer?
Before you even begin to start looking for a new relationship you need to work on and master being committed to yourself.
As we are attracted to the kind of people who are like us, if we do not have a healthy commitment towards ourselves, how can we expect anyone else to be the same about us.?