6 Reasons Why You Giving Up Should Not Be An Option

Nov 16

4. Your Support System

Can you really forget so easily that time when you were going through a particularly hard time in your life and your partner was there for you and brought you back from the brink?  When you lost all hope and he or she gave you the meaningful and thoughtful pep talk you needed to get up and get through it.  When all you wanted to do was cry and all they did was make you laugh and smile.  You need to understand that when people fall in love and form a relationship together, they become a part of a support system for one another.  They are there for one another when things are on the up and when they are down low.  They make each other want to grow and progress in life.  Can you really be okay in life without that support system?  Well then, hold on tightly to one another and don’t let go.

5. The Chemistry Between You

When your relationship hits the rocks, one of the most important things you need to remember and hold on to is the chemistry you both share.  Trust me on this one, I KNOW bad couples and have seen a fair share of them in my life.  The kind of couples who are just with each other for superficial reason, because they were bored or just because they didn’t want to be alone.  The kind of couples who have no tangible chemistry whatsoever.  That being said, I have also seen and known couples who were so good for each other because the chemistry they shared was right there for all to see.  The kind that other people spoke about.  Life is a series of hits and misses at times and it cane take a lot of misses to find that hit of a partner whom you actually have chemistry with.  If you have found that, why would you want to let go of something so precious?

6. The Important Part They Have In Your Life

My last but certainly not least point is this – just how important are you to your partner and your partner to you?  Do they have such an importance, a prominence in your life that they can do and say things that alter or change it?  Will you feel truly empty without them in your life?  If you are at the point where you want to just give up, throw the towel in and end it all, think about what your life would be like without them in it.  Does it feel pathless and meaningless?  If your answer is yes, then your partner has a very important place in your life and in your soul and if you let go of them, it will hurt.  It will hurt a lot, so if you don’t want to hurt lots – fight for your relationship and don’t give up!

Are you going to quit or hold on?

Have you been faced with a similar predicament in your life and relationship?  Did you fight for it and hold on tight or did you give up and quit?  Let me know in the comments section below.  I want to hear your own experiences. 

The one take away you should have from this article is – if something is worth a lot to you, someone is your world – DON’T LET GO OF THEM!