7 Ways You Can Be Sure Your Guy Really Loves You

Sep 02

1. He Is Good To You

You know a man really loves you if he is concerned about and treats your desires, needs, and feelings as things that are as important as his own.  He is committed to making sure your life is as good as it can be and will go the extra mile and do more than is required to ensure that you are well and have a great life.  He extends this attitude towards your family and friends too. 


2. He Gives As Much Of His Time To You As He Can

A guy that really loves you won’t let too much time pass between seeing you again.  Whenever he can, he will spend his available free time with you because he wants to.  Even if you are in a long-term relationship, you know a man truly loves you if he does all he can to make sure you spend as much time together as possible when circumstances and schedules allow; but will make time for the important days and celebrations on the calendar such as New Year’s Day, Christmas, Thanksgiving,, Valentine’s Day, birthdays and of course anniversaries. 


3. He Makes You Number One In His Life

 When your man really loves you, you are the first and most important thing on his mind.  When you aren’t together, he keeps in contact as much as he can.  He also tries to consider and think of you when he is making decisions and wants to do things that you want to do. 


4. He is Caring Towards You

If good things happen to you, he is the first one to congratulate and help you celebrate.  He is considerate of your feelings and supportive when you go through rough situations or come against obstacles in your life.  He sticks by you through the bad and difficult times as well as the good and easier ones.  When it is necessary he will not shy away from telling you, in a loving way, if you are approaching things in the wrong way or if he thinks you can improve yourself.

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5. He Wants People To Know Who You Are

 You know your man really loves you if he is not afraid to show you signs of affection when you are out in public together.  This could be something as little as hugging you, putting his arm around you or holding your hand as you walk down the street.  He feels pride and likes to show you off and has already introduced you to his nearest and dearest and you are his plus one guest whenever he has to attend family gatherings or events with your friends and/or work colleagues. 


 6. He Is Unwaveringly Loyal To You

He is always loyal and trustworthy when it comes to your relationship and you as an individual.  There are no skeletons in his cupboard as he is completely upfront with you about his past relationships.  When he makes a promise to do something, you know he will; unless he is unable to and then he will contact you to let you know.  Whenever you have come across problems and roadblocks in your relationship he has been willing to put the work in to sort them out rather than sweeping them under the rug.  While not perfect, he does his very best to always improve himself to make himself the best man he can be.


 7. He Always Wants What Is Best For You 

 A relationship based on real love involves freedom and therefore you know your man really has a deep love for you when he wants you to do the things that make you happy, even when these things don’t involve him.  He is happy for you to spend time with your family and friends and encourages that you do it and to live out your passions. 

Pay less attention to what your man actually says and notice whether he backs his words up with actions.