9 Signs The Man You’re With, Should Be Your Husband

Jun 25
9 signs you should marry him

In life there is one thing more important than rhyme, reason, power and money and it’s the one thing we are all chasing after, ladies – love.

The feeling of being head over heels, properly in love can be compared to that comfortable and safe feeling you get when you return home.  You have no worries and all you want to do is give that special man your heart to treasure.

When you are that much in love with someone, it is very easy to imagine being together with them forever.  However, how can you tell it I not just fantasy but the real deal?

It may feel outdated, but most of us still see marriage as an important and serious bonding between two people in love.  In the following article you will find 9 signs to look out for that tell you the man you are with should be your husband.

9. He doesn’t expect you to be anyone, but yourself around him.

He doesn’t expect you to be anyone, but yourself around him

As we all have our fair share of good and bad days, if your man is the kind of guy who understands this and accepts you for who and what you are, regardless of how you are feeling, he is definitely husband material.

Anyone that truly loves you for who you are would never expect you to pretend that you are in a good or happy mood when you are not.  You especially know you are on to a winner, when your guy is happy to laze around with you on the days when you just want to dress in baggy, comfortable clothes and mong out on the sofa or in bed.

8. He finds happiness in your happiness, and vice versa

He finds happiness in your happiness

You know you have the right man to spend the rest of your days and nights because he always wants and tries to do what is best for you, regardless of what it costs him.

The man you want to be your husband is the one that gives of his time and everything else freely an unselfishly and who relishes in sharing your personal interests and making them his own, because they are yours.

He will always make time for you, no matter how busy his working life gets, making sure you know you are still the most important person in his life.

7. On the bad days, you’d still rather be with him than be alone.

On the bad days, you’d still rather be with him than be alone

It doesn’t matter if you’ve had the worst day of your life in a long time, even when you don’t want to see, speak or spend time with anyone else; you want to be with him, because everything feels better when you are with him, compared to how it feels when you are on your own.

You know he should be your husband if he allows you the time to air your thoughts, feelings, worries, gripes and moans without interruption and does not try to disregard them.  His passion and confidence in the relationship has a powerful influence on you and increases the excitement you feel from being in a relationship with him.  You simply don’t want to spend time apart from him.

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  • ekpg

    Not sure about all of 4) physical looks attraction can change/fade but if you love someone you still can see beauty in them & 5) I don’t agree that couples have to be interested & involved in EVERYTHING they do, all the time. I think it us okay if you have your own interests, hobbies that you do that it is not necessary to have your partner doing them. Just so it isn’t keeping you from enjoying enough time together

  • Shannon Taylor

    I agree with ekpg. I feel that it is important for a couple to have some of their own interests and hobbies separate from each other. You have to have time apart to value the time together. Also that looks fade, but true love will remain when you love someone more for who the are on a deeper level than their surface beauty. Otherwise I would pretty much agree with the article. It is these things that I have been looking for in a mate my whole life. I have yet to marry because I have yet to meet a man that measures up to a forever kinda man. But, still very hopeful. LOL <3

  • CatoYounger

    How about, “he works to make your relationship stronger even when the “feelings” run dry”? Life is not a Disney fairytale.

    • Seshat Easu

      Why should the feelings run dry?

    • Tonypepperoni

      How about no?

  • DominusRebellis

    These are the type of stupid articles that put a false image and idea into a women’s head of what is perfect. There is no perfect. A relationship isn’t about a guy being a superhero every fucking day. A man this day and age needs more support than ever by a strong woman who is capable of handling her emotions and not being a drag on the relationship. Women read crap like this and wonder “hmm why can’t I find the perfect guy” and make decisions based on crap articles like this. STOP IT! Women in this day and age are selfish, incomplete and never satisfied because society has made them think that the traditional role of being a mother, wife and housewife is wrong even though that is the path to fulfillment and love on every level.

  • Patrice Pittman Ki’anna

    everybody is different so what dont work for one might/would work for the next,i believe ppl should stop adding they’er personal opinion about things because just cause its not ideal for u doesnt mean its not for the anybody esle…if it dont work for you then u shouldnt have been on here or show interest/waste time on here commenting, ijs